Washing Each Other's Feet | God Morning #22

God morning my brothers and sisters, 

Today, I want to share a story that captures the essence of my journey and the lessons I've learned about having a servant's heart. 

Growing up in the Philippines, I was born into a Roman Catholic family, deeply rooted in a culture rich with tradition. My life took a significant turn at the age of 12 when I moved to the United States to live with my mother and Jewish stepfather. This transition opened up a new world of Jewish faith and traditions, immersing me in a way of life that emphasized community, learning, and above all, service. 

My stepfather, though not my biological parent, played a pivotal role in shaping my upbringing. He was a very religious and legalistic person, which created a challenging environment at home. This strict atmosphere even led my older brothers to leave our home early. However, he was diligent in teaching me the traditions and rituals of the Jewish faith. One tradition that stood out to me was Hachnasat Orchim, the sacred duty of welcoming guests. While our home wasn't always warm and inviting, this tradition taught me that true hospitality is about more than just comfort; it's about making others feel valued and respected. 

At 18, my stepfather decided to leave us, believing that, as a non-bloodline Jewish family, we couldn't fully embody the faith and that I 'wasn't good enough'.  It was a difficult moment, but rather than harboring bitterness, I reflected on the valuable lessons I had learned. The teachings of the Old Testament, the rituals, and the strong sense of community had left an indelible mark on me. 

One of the most profound lessons was the concept of a 'servant's heart'.  In Judaism, acts of kindness and service are not just encouraged but commanded.  The practice of Hachnasat Orchim, along with other mitzvot (good deeds), instilled in me the importance of serving others. This ethos was later echoed in the Christian tradition of 'foot washing', which symbolizes humility and service. Washing someone's feet, an act Jesus performed for His disciples, mirrored the lessons I had learned about selflessness and care for others. 

As I continued my spiritual journey, embracing both Jewish and Christian experiences, I realized that the toughest times often teach us the most valuable lessons. The challenges I faced, including my stepfather's departure, only strengthened my resolve to live a life of service. A true servant's heart transcends religious boundaries; it embodies love, kindness, and humility in every aspect of life. 

Today, I strive to uphold the values of both faiths. Although our household wasn't always the warmest, the traditions I learned have deeply influenced how I treat others. My commitment to serving others with a humble heart remains strong, as I believe it's one of the most important things we can do. 

This brings us to our Friday Fly-by word of the week, and it comes from John 13:14, and it says…'Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet.'  

This verse beautifully illustrates the importance of serving others with humility. As you go about your day, reflect on how you can serve others with a servant's heart. Remember, in serving others, we honor the love and grace that God has shown us.   

Once again, I hope this message has touched you today to make a difference in others.  Love you all, have a beautiful weekend and as always, Be blessed and go be a blessing!    

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